I look at it this way.....If you want it bad enough you will pay whatever you are willing to pay for it. If another on here is willing to pay more for it than you, then you really didn't want it that bad did you? What I bid on and why is my business with ebay and the seller, and no one else on here IMO. If I get into a bidding war on something with someone who happens to be a member here as well, so be it. I know what I'm willing to pay for something I'm looking for and won't go over that price, no matter how long I've been looking for it. If you outbid me then I guess I didn't want it as bad as you......Soap Box and thats my :2Cents: